What are unforgivable acts?

because “forgiveness is something we extend or do not extend towards persons, and it fundamentally affects the relationships between persons. And yet, it is deeds which are said to be unforgivable.”43 For example, rape, torture, and murder are often cited as unforgivable acts, because they are so repulsive and heinous.

What goes on in the mind of a betrayer?

5. The betrayer begins to fantasize, make plans, and think about the betrayal. They tell themselves that they are “… In their minds they’ve been slowly entertaining thoughts of unfaithfulness, lustful thoughts, thoughts of what they deserve, of how great they are.

What should I do if he hasn’t called me?

If he hasn’t called and you really want to talk to him, if he’s the right guy for you and you’re the right woman for him, it won’t matter. None of it. You can call if you want to; he can call if he wants to. You can wait if you want to, or don’t wait if you don’t want to.

Should I Forgive my boyfriend if he cheated on Me?

So your boyfriend cheated on you, but you still love him, and you’re wondering if you can forgive him. But perhaps that’s the wrong question. Maybe what you should be asking is “ Should you forgive him?” Should you forgive him indeed! That’s a very big question. If your boyfriend cheated on you, then perhaps you would be better off without him.

Should I Forgive my Boyfriend for his stupid mistakes?

If your boyfriend has made a stupid mistake for the first time, you can probably find it in your heart to forgive him. Your main fear is that by forgiving him once he might feel empowered to do something like this again. Suppose you forgive him now, and then find yourself in the same boat next week or next month or next year?

Is it OK to not want to lose him?

You say you don’t want to lose him, but something has been lost. The relationship you had prior to the affair is lost. It is OK to need some time to grieve that loss. It is also OK (and I strongly recommend) that you get some help with all of this.